YADDA AKE GANE NAMJI HARIJI
Hariji kalma ce da wasu suke amfani da ita don kwatanta yanayin da wani ke da matsala wajen yawan sha’awar jima’i, ko abinda yayi kama da hakan. Ana samun maza da suke da son yawan yin jima’i, shiyasa ba kowace mace ke iya jurewa da zama da namiji hariji ba sai dai idan itama harijar ce.
Da yawa daga cikin mata har da maza suna yawan tambaya ko ana iya gane wasu alamomin namiji hariji? Eh, ana iya gane namiji hariji idan yana da wasu alamomin da za mu bayyana muku su a wannan darasin na yau.
Duk hariji ko namiji ko mace sun san kansu ba sai an bayyana musu ba saboda dabi’u da suke yi zai tabbatar da hakan. Sai dai wannan na iya haifar da matsala a lafiyarsu, dangantaka, aiki, ko wasu fannonin rayuwarsu musamman idan basuda aure.
Ma’anar Hariji da Harija a Fuskar Jima’i
Gabatarwa
A yau idan ka ji ana cewa “wancan fa Hariji ne” ko “waccan Harija ce,” yawanci mutane ba sa nufin sabon ango ko sabuwar amarya kamar yadda ake nufi a da.
A yanzu, kalmar tana da wani salo daban — ana nufin mutum ne wanda baya gajiya da jima’i, ko wanda yake da ƙarfin sha’awa sosai.
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Wannan ma’anar ta samo asali ne daga yadda a da ake ganin sabon ango da sabuwar amarya suna da kuzari sosai a kwanakin farko na aure. Saboda haka, daɗaɗɗiyar magana ta koma tana nufin ƙarfin sha’awa da juriya a jima’i.
Hariji a fuskar jima’i
Hariji ana nufin namiji mai ƙarfi sosai wajen jima’i, wanda baya gajiya da yin hakan.
Yana iya zama yana da ƙarfi ta jiki, lafiyar jikinsa tana da kyau, kuma zuciyarsa tana da kuzari.
A wasu lokuta kuma, akwai maza da suke da irin wannan ƙarfin saboda yanayin halittarsu — jinin jikinsu da hormones suna aiki sosai, hakan yasa sha’awarsu ke ƙaruwa.
A wasu lokuta kuma, wasu sukan ɗauka da wasa su ce mutum Hariji ne saboda yana da juriya ko yawan sha’awa, amma a fannin ilimi, wannan yana nufin mutum mai high libido ko sexual stamina, wato wanda sha’awarsa ke da ƙarfi da juriya a kwanciyar aure.
Harija a fuskar jima’i
Harija kuwa ana nufin mace mai irin wannan hali wacce take da ƙarfin sha’awa sosai, ko wacce take da kuzari wajen jima’i.
Ba lallai sai saboda rashin kunya ko wasa ba, wasu mata halittar jikinsu ce take basu irin wannan kuzarin.
Idan mace tana da hormones masu yawa, musamman testosterone da estrogen, hakan na iya sa ta zama mai yawan sha’awa.
Saboda haka, idan aka ce mace Harija ce, ana iya nufin tana da juriya, ba ta gajiya da saduwa, ko tana da shauƙi fiye da sauran mata.
Dalilan da ke kawo irin wannan hali
Akwai abubuwa da dama da ke iya sa mutum ya zama “Hariji” ko “Harija” ta fuskar jima’i:
1. Lafiyar jiki da motsa jiki: Mutum mai lafiya sosai kan fi ƙarfin sha’awa.
2. Abinci: Wasu abinci kamar gyaɗa, kifi, zuma, da kwakwa suna ƙara kuzarin sha’awa.
3. Tunani da walwala: Idan mutum yana cikin farin ciki da kwanciyar hankali, jinin jikinsa yana gudana sosai, hakan na ƙara sha’awa.
4. Halitta (genetic): Wasu mutane sun gaji irin wannan hali daga iyaye.
5. Motsa hormones: Idan hormones ɗin sha’awa suna aiki sosai, sha’awa tana ƙaruwa sosai.
Bambanci tsakanin ƙarfin sha’awa da rashin daidaito
Yana da kyau a sani cewa yawan sha’awa ba laifi bane, amma idan ta wuce kima ta zama tana hana mutum natsuwa, bacci ko aiki, to hakan na nuna rashin daidaito.
Wannan a ilimi ana kiransa hypersexuality, wato mutum baya iya takura kansa wajen jima’i.
Saboda haka, Hariji ko Harija na gaskiya ba lallai sai su zama masu cuta ba — wasu halitta ce kawai ta Allah.
Kammalawa
A takaice, a yau idan aka ce mutum Hariji, ana nufin namiji mai ƙarfin sha’awa da juriya wajen jima’i; idan kuma aka ce Harija, ana nufin mace mai irin wannan hali.
Wannan fahimta ta samo asali ne daga tsohuwar ma’anar sabuwar aure, amma yanzu ta koma magana akan kuzarin jima’i.
A fannin ilimi kuma, ana ganin hakan yana da alaƙa da hormones, lafiyar jiki, da yanayin halitta ba wai rashin kunya ba.
Don haka, idan aka ce mutum Hariji ko Harija, sai a gane cewa maganar tana da asali a halitta, ba kawai wasa ba.
